OTB,

My DD and I went to a family party yesterday. Nobody knew what was going on but everybody kept asking me what was going on because I was not myself. Today we are going to church and I am thinking about bringing them to the park this afternoon.

As for GAL, softball starts for me in a week. I still have my support from some good friends. I run when I get time.

As for the sitch with my W. This past Friday when I confronted her about the affair I told her that she is not allowed back home until she proves to me that the affair is over. She actually thinks that she can come home tonight, I hope I am not overreacting but she will not be able to get in. As for the money, I plan on getting an account opened in my name and move everything into it. Another thing is if I am going to be driving the girls around more often I need to get a new car. My car is reliable enough for me but not for my girls. I am planning on paying off my W car and then trading mine in for something newer. Now I need a little advice. I can afford to payoff my W car and still afford a new but I learned last night that my W has some money stashed away in her own checking account. What I plan on doing is taking whatever we owe and paying half from my money and then half from hers. Is that wrong? I will tell her about it but probably after I do it.....that might make it wrong.

-EmtnRllrCstr


Me - 30
2 girls- 3,6Current