Light at the End?

[~Sol]

I know ford, I'm just in shock to know that it was a full-fledged affair and that she wanted to leave because she thought we "were through" - but during that time her head was messed from being involved with someone else. This whole thing stinks, and it sucks to know the truth.

I haven't told my W about this since I know she will deny it and so will he - so what's the point in letting the cat outta the bag? But because she did this, and I don't see any remorse on her part, I am not sure I want to continue in this M. I'm starting to detach, calming down a bit, and seeing this for what it is. I just ask myself - how can I prevent this from happening again? I think I know the answer - either by having a solid M, or divorce, right? I think those are my 2 choices since I will not just "let this go"....it will happen again - that's my fear.