If you do not go dark and soon, you'll go down the drain and he won't go with you. You are still sounding needy, mixed with understandable (and a little healthy) anger. Go dark my God, GO DARK as much as possible. The anger can become all consuming and even though it is "right" and your H is "wrong", you don't want to make things worse in your LIFE, by being a bitter wife OR a bitter EX-wife. Either way, you have to move forward.
You "overlooked" all suggestions about leaving the business or delegating to someone else as much contact with him as possible, can't someone or an assistant pass info to him, or your comments in writing? I am serious. UNtil you get out of there, or he is struck by lightning, you have a permaent incurable problem. What you are hoping is that he wakes up, without YOU having to do anything differently. Long term, I cannot see that working. You might get the scraps like you got last week, or not, and you might' "Guilt" him back for a few yo yo touch and goes....but for a lasting renewed M, you have to end the M you have now, and work on yourself, so that you bring something to the table as a partner, not an accessory with needs. Ending the M you have now, means no more yo yo, no more cheating and no more chasing/calling/snooping /double checking --you know, I cannot see how any of those actions can possibly make you happy. Best case scenario, you find crap out, and then end things sooner....
Please re-read the posts you have gotten. j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
