Has anyone heard of the "controlled separation" approach described in "should i stay or should i go..."? Sounds like an interesting alternative path.
Will see a lawyer this coming week and inform myself. Have also ordered a bunch of books about D so that time with lawyer is well spent.
Then will inform wife that I am thinking of D and ask what would she like to do. Earlier she had said that we could just make an agreement between the two of us, but I prefer hard copy on paper (though maybe an agreement between the two of us could be just that - what would be the difference?)
Off for a woodsy run again, it being dry enough now so you don't have to navigate through puddles and mud. Mostly sunny, 53F, light west wind.
Luke
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.
