You did GREAT !!!! Be proud of yourself. It is the first day of the rest of your life. Yes, you feel down, that is because you will be riding the roller coaster us piecers do ALOT!! It was a REAL high for you being with her again, especially when she told you she wanted to work on things. Once you leave that situation, all the emotions of what went wrong, why aren't we together, how can I make this up to her, how can I .....
You have to slow down the pace. I don't think it would be harmful to send her flowers. She has already mentioned her mother's flowers to you a couple of times now. That would indicate to me that she wouldn't mind getting some herself, to show how much you care about HER. Some nice spring flowers would be nice, keep it simple and keep the card simple too. Don't do overboard - a simple "thanks for the wonderful afternoon" kind of thing would do.
Give it a little time, if she calls to thank you for the flowers, which I am sure, from the sounds of how things went, she would, then you can perhaps suggest another time to get together, maybe this time a little more intimate - perhaps a dinner at a nice restaurant or something.
You are doing well, keep it up!!
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
