You are so right. For instance, I personally have MB'd to themes generated by the posts of at least 3 men on this BB. Therefore, at least 3 men on this BB are guilty of participating in cyber-chat-sex or at least co-operative erotica writing. Does the fact that I did it without their consent make them any less guilty. I think not. So cast not the first stone thee who live in glass houses etc.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver