12_51 It sounds like you did a really good job last night! Be glad; as another poster on this board said; the sitch did not develop overnight, and it won't go away quickly. It's a natural desire to want everything "fixed" right away, but PATIENCE, PATIENCE, and more PATIENCE! We always seem to want what we want when we want it, but you showing your W sincere changes will be working on her. So continue to stay frosty, stay on track, and don't fall back into the trap of being our old needy, whining selves. As far as feeling down, I suspect that part of you was hoping that the night would show a drastic turn around. I think this, because I believe that part of me would have thought the same. Just stay firm and confident, and keep reading the posts by Corri, et. al. Peace be with you, and try to look at long term goals, instead of worrying over last night. Don't keep rehashing it over and over. Instead, look for reasons to get together again. But remember to still give her room to breath.
