Not much new to report. Getting the house ready to sell. I have been working on Rob's advice and I'm slowly coming around, which is good because it is in the right direction. I'm still not snooping, also good. I received a book from the Employee Assistance Program from work called, "Rebuilding - When your relationship ends". It is by Bruce Fisher and Robert Alberti, it is a very good book and it talks of the 19 steps to rebuilding yourself into a healthy individual that is ok being single. I'm kinda bouncing around in the first 8, mostly the first 5.
W is further away than ever. So I am working on me and spending as much time with the kids as possible. I'm working on building friendships and taking a close look at who I was and am and where I can improve as a person. It is hard because now I see where I was so deficient as a friend and partner. So as I discover and grow, it is painful to know I should have done this long ago. This book is very helpful, it tells how a mature healthy person can be perceptive and adapt with flexablity to changes in their partner. That would have made all the difference in my sitch. They have another book out I'm going to order called Loving Choices, it is about communication. That's it for now, 4
