COG--i think you have great taste...classy, elegant, erotic. wow. its not like some of the things they show (not VS specifically) that are pole-dance styles. she should feel special. and to reiterate what cj says, and like what i said earlier, do you/can you do the gentle yet teasing little touches throughout the day; intimate yet undemanding gestures that show you see her as a desireable woman? you are a lucky man, here you are getting a crash course about what woman like from women, who should know best. surely something will fit your W's desires. have you ever asked her what makes her feel special? if she's denied that part of herself for any length of time, it may take a while for her to think about it, but it might be a nice thing for her to delve into. we're pulling for you!! jacqm
