Thanks guys, I appreciate the experts here giving me encouragement and advice.
Kels, you are right, I DO need to stop allowing ow to take up my energy, and thoughts. This morning my H was getting ready for work, and told me he has to work a little late tonight as a fill in for an hour for his sargeant, and tomorrow morning as security for some church. He said he knew I would be mad, but I told him, not mad, just like him to be with US on Sunday morning at OUR church. He said if you don't think I will be there you can just drive by and check. I said now why do think I would not believe you will be there? I repeated that I trust him and believe he will be there but it's just I would rather he was with us. Then he said you don't have to worry, she (ow) went back to her ex-husband. WHAT!!!!!
I nearly fainted, because I NEVER mention ow to him at all, and he said this. I didn't say anything and changed the subject.
Sven, I so agree with you about not giving him "bomb parts"; good way to put it. I am going to work really hard on it, and give him every reason to want to stay.
Thanks, Heywyre, It's a scary ride, but it's the ride I want to be on in this carnival.
