Sashaying thru Seperation II

[Heartbroken]

MC - you need to just focus on the positives!!! She moved out b/c of OM you just have to accept this fact. She must be confused in that she is doing these dates with you - I don't think it's using you. You cannot guess what she is thinking while with you or with the OM so don't even try - you just set yourself up to be mad/disappointed. She could be refusing to even talk to/see you at all and then where would you be?

I know it's so hard - I let H get the apt just to 'play' bachelor and I knew when he was going out with OW and when OW stayed the night and it bothered me then and it is still below the surface now (for me)- but if I would have just ended it then we would be done.

You have to decide if you are in this for the long haul and if not that's okay but only you can make that decision. We all have unique sitches but w/so many common BS items- these WAS are just so sad and really not the people we married. All we can do is try and hang in there with our faith and hope that they will snap out of it... Baby Steps dude! I see how far you have come - keep at it!