W moving out & says that it's permanent - Part 2

[Heywyre]

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You did good !!! Probably a little on the begging side but, all in all, a good show of strength. You covered the subjects you wanted to (albeit with a little help from margaurita - lol) but you did it nonetheless.

Now it is time for HER to digest what you said. It is a lot to throw at her all at once. Like Fearless said, this mess didn't happen overnight and it won't fix itself overnight either. It is going to take a LOT of work, from both sides. But it seems there is still some doubt in her heart and mind that she REALLY wants to do this (D) so perhaps she will take a little time, not file any papers for the time being, and see if this "new man" continues on with his promises.

I thought you might feel down this morning - its quite a rollercoaster ride at times but you are holding strong so far and will be ok. You need to vent here as much as possible so it doesn't come out in your conversations with her. Give her some time to think about all that was said last night. Don't think that she won't be going through some serious ups and downs too. This isn't all about you. In the meantime, take care of YOU, keep up with GAL and taking those meds. And when you do talk to her, say you HAVE taken care of the problem (regarding the meds etc.) don't make it sound like you are "kinda" doing something about it, be confident and strong, that is what she wants to see

And yes, from the bulge in your pants, I can see they have grown a fair amount already