MC,
Again you have learned why it's way better not to snoop! I know this is incredibly hard and I have my weak moments as well, but it never makes me happy after I do it, so it's our own damned faults! Forget about the fact that she is calling the OM, it does not matter at all. Just act as if you are dating a woman, but not in a commited relationship with her. How whould this make you react in that case? For me, it would motivate me to try to find ways to make myself more interesting/attractive to her. And remember, that does not involve pursuing, but rather getting a life!

For now, try to focus back on the emotions of your date and the fact that your M still has a chance.

LO, you did GREAT! He knows you know and he knows that you did not let it phase you. Perfect DBing!

SD

Me 41
W 41
Kids: S9 S7
Married 16 years
Bomb dropped 2/2/07
Still living together!
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