Karen First off, good luck with that baby today. Hope all goes well.
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I'm not sure whether telling the nitty gritty (especially of a SECOND fairly insignificant involvement with someone) won't prolong Mrs. Chromes agony and give her something to fixate on, something to heap on to her feelings of failure.
As time passes, it becomes more clear to me that most of this "EA" with Chrome was a delusion in my own warped head. Frankly, I think he just wanted someone else to be attracted to him. Stupid me, my own mistakes there. There is NOTHING for Chrome to tell his W about "us" other than this woman from the internet wanted to be friends and I was too nice to just say F*ck off. As for the "real" OW, from what I know of Chrome, my gut tells me that is hardly a done deal. He never talked to me about it and he seems to avoid questions on here about it, especially regarding what his W does or does not know. I have been nothing but upfront with Chrome and I feel like a real idiot the more I think about it. I just wish he would be honest with someone about all of this crap. His W being first choice, as she should be. But he is not going to be honest with any of us. Sorry if I am getting a little emotional here (big shocker), I'm more upset with myself than Chrome but I just am sick of this being rehashed over and over. I'm not one to just sit back and watch the show, I tend to jump into the line of fire, especially when my "name" comes up. That's all. LFL