Hi Mc - Nice job on the date last night. Try not to let the fact that your W called OM upset you too much. You left her with good feelings for you and that's what counts. The hardest thing is that when we start to see some movement forward, we expect our S's to just give up the OP right away. Sad to say - it doesn't usually happen that quickly. PLUS - you never know what they talked about!!!! OM can't be happy that he is losing ground. HA!

My date went well, too \:\) Pretty non-eventful.. lots of hand-holding. So, that was nice. Of course, NO R talk but H did kind of slip up (?) and said something about staying at a nice condo next fall.. hmmm... I just ignored the comment and moved on with the convo. I did have an irritating thing happen this morning as well, though. Not sure if I handled it ok or not. A text came in from ow and I just picked up H phone and said (with zero emotion) - you have a message. He said nothing.. what could he say?? We've talked about this before and how disruptive it is. Should I have handled it differently?