The interim support will put a crimp in OW lifestyle and she might get a good taste of reality!!! I hope for that all the time with my H... he is not the easiest person to be with shoot he got sick last weekend when with her.. I wonder how she reacted to him for he is a pain when sick. I saw him Sunday and he seemed fine so not sure what he needed antibiotics for..my mind already did the wandering thing there!!!
so anything to make the OW and H see what life is going to be like in the real world is a huge plus. YES it will
do you think he is sitting on the fence?? has doubts but the OW is enough of an addiction still that he can't think logically?
dont know..but feel yes is heavy addiction....but she is in picture 24-7 so he couldnt have time to think if he wanted to.
this is where I believe mine is for when OW is out of picture he is here. As soon as she reappears he is gone but someone told me last week that he called after being with her for 3 days because he felt guilty. Does that happen?
all you can hope is the hearing strikes a nerve and he realizes what life is going to be like when the court makes him pay and be responsible.
Thats what i am hoping for....i dont think he has a clue....
Those OW do have a lot of control with that mlc mind that can't make a decision to save their life if they had to.
I belive this 100%...she is very controlling....a gold digger..predator...that set her sights on him....he is sooo in lala land cant see it.....replay at its finest. running slapping the bandaid on....is the crash harder when they run sooo hard...moron brags how she left her H for him? Brainwashed?
Mine's OW I believe was D last yr when the EA turned PA. She walked him through this step by step.. got him the Collaborative L that would not go to court. Opened bank accts and a condo.
Oh yeah,,,she had her D in 2 months last year,,,,bam....once she hooked my H. He did not file til Jan-feb. (almst 11 months post bomb and looked like a zombie giving me the papers) Im sure she put the screws to him after finding out he hadnt...then he did nothing for 90 days so the court ordered our financials in and the hearing got set up.by our lawyers or mine once they had a conference....does that sound like a man in a hurry to get a D
so the "don't know" makes me have a glimmer of hope some days for it means that he is not sure and there is still a chance.
BND just keeps telling me hell be back the signs are there
All you can do is stay strong and keep busy and maybe he will come to his senses.
Take time for you this weekend. Stress makes us say things we regret is what I am finding.
yes I had been so well behaved for months.....but the CC...court....my dog...i just snapped.....i apologized in a txt....said it was only the frustration of still loving a piece of him and not being able to do a dam thing that is was his trip alone...even tho it made me look like a bitch..the only thing i was guilty of was still caring. Of course i have said nothing about feelings for over 6 months....til now...H
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
