Thanks to everyone for your helpful advice. Others can usually see our situations a lot clearer than we can see it ourselves.
That said, I didn't hear from H last night. However, his sister said he went out of town on Wednesday (either on a new job or looking for one) and possibly has not returned yet.
It is possible H doesn't know about the court document yet.
BTW, in that document, my L asked the court to incarcerate my H b/c of contempt (which is in addition to being forced to sell the house and property). Does anyone know if H could be arrested and jailed over this? I pray not. I have cried a river of tears worrying about it. IF ONLY my L had picked up the phone and informed me before filing that document, maybe I could have stopped it somehow.
OTOH, it is very possible that peaceful_spirit is right in that everything happens for a reason. You would think that all the arrests, DUIs, fines, probation, loss of job, family and respect over the past year would have alerted his muddled MLC brain that "something" is wrong in his life. Perhaps H needs this final wake-up call to finally open his eyes.
