Made it through the night without confronting her. I feel I need to, or she will think that affairs are easy and she will do this again if we continue to have problems down the road.
She doesn't control me anymore. She has no room to talk. She's just another person in my eyes, not my wife. She thinks she can just make a happy home and I will forget about all of this, but she breached my trust big time. Now I can't even touch her in bed, but I can still sleep wherever the hell I want to. There will be a "talk", and I have been advised to be calm when I speak, let her vent, but for me to stay cool when I tell her about the sex. She needs to know that I know. As far as I am concerned, this marriage is over - it's not a true marriage but one that is based on lies.
Last edited by sol1696; 04/28/0711:36 AM.
~Sol
~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Single Dad, and luvin it! ~ Happiness is a state of mind ~
