Need another opinion, is my W OM, friend or more?

[andyv]

MLC is such a pain.

My W went to Melbourne for a shopping exped with her girlfriends, I assume EA/OM went with them because he just loves doing girly things with them.

W was pretty friendly when she left on Friday morning, spoke on phone, how excited she was etc etc.

Then she sent a txt on Fri night (no call) saying she was having a good time and send love to DD.

Today (Saturday) she left a message for DD (at 5:30 pm, no call all day) on home phone, saying she missed her, but no reference to me (she keeps telling me she still want's to be friends with me, and has been acting nice around me at home etc). She left a message on my mobile, for DD.

I feel that she is still angry at me (MLC blaming me for everything, missing out on things, not there emotionally, controlling, jealous etc).

But since I have been lovingly detached and GAL over the last 2 weeks, I wonder if she is doing this on purpose (ignoring me whilst she is having a good time). Because she has not been able to push my buttons for some time.

Maybe testing my controlling and jealous nature (which has pretty much been exhausted since this saga started, and I have controlled it really well). Normally I would have had a go at her etc.

I have not called her, only returned her calls.

I have been unavailable today to take her calls. Too busy with DD doing fun things with my family and friends.

Or possibly her EA has turned PA during her trip??? Good opportunity?? I still think he is gay though.

Any takes on the above from anyone???