The interim support will put a crimp in OW lifestyle and she might get a good taste of reality!!! I hope for that all the time with my H... he is not the easiest person to be with shoot he got sick last weekend when with her.. I wonder how she reacted to him for he is a pain when sick. I saw him Sunday and he seemed fine so not sure what he needed antibiotics for..my mind already did the wandering thing there!!!
so anything to make the OW and H see what life is going to be like in the real world is a huge plus.
do you think he is sitting on the fence?? has doubts but the OW is enough of an addiction still that he can't think logically?
this is where I believe mine is for when OW is out of picture he is here. As soon as she reappears he is gone but someone told me last week that he called after being with her for 3 days because he felt guilty. Does that happen?
all you can hope is the hearing strikes a nerve and he realizes what life is going to be like when the court makes him pay and be responsible.
Those OW do have a lot of control with that mlc mind that can't make a decision to save their life if they had to.
Mine's OW I believe was D last yr when the EA turned PA. She walked him through this step by step.. got him the Collaborative L that would not go to court. Opened bank accts and a condo.
so the "don't know" makes me have a glimmer of hope some days for it means that he is not sure and there is still a chance.
All you can do is stay strong and keep busy and maybe he will come to his senses.
Take time for you this weekend. Stress makes us say things we regret is what I am finding.
H
m24 yrs h 50 me 47 s 21 s 17 left 5-30-06, and 12-4-06 still gone.............
