i asked if if thought he loved her no answer...actually...he has never said he loved her ever....they just live together in his apt...play house and he spends all his money on her.....i said you spend everydime you have on her and some of those are my dimes....no answer. Last fall you say there is no money for my horses then you go to vegas for 6 days.....he didnt have much to say to defend himself......arghhhhh...I hit it all...trust me.....and woe is him he has to put everything he owns up for sale.....jeesh i said you have done this to your self...this is not my mess. No sympathy from me on that one.....except i told him I was sorry he had done this to himself....but he wanted me to take some ownership...no way.
dont know is a hallmark of MLC.....im surprised after a year and we are headed to a D that he would say that....I thought his choice was pretty clear. Tho I think OW put pressure on him to file...she had her D in 2 months a yr ago....we are still not there.
I have said D is final...door closed....seperation leaves door ajar...but L talked him out of that.....well this hearing is just for interim support....which of course he doesnt want to pay....puts a twist in life with OW.....she might get unhappy.....
Last edited by pws; 04/28/0703:27 AM.
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
