Shut up, let go, and let God deal with all of it. His timing and ours is not the same so get used to it. Patience and kindness and full trust in God are learned during this dark time. Always remember that God is working in him, and in me even though we do not always see results.
Being still also means that God is on our side because he hates adultery and divorce. If we are faithful and ask God, he will help us along and in the end might restore our marriage(s).
Deep down, I think we will be back together--when, I do not know.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
