Will this OW ever go away??!!

[johns_blondie]

OK...let me go ahead and tell you...they are both officers and they got caught while in Iraq. They lied on government documents and I have all the proof in the world to permanently damage both of them. But...what good would that do me. We would lose everything that we have if he lost his job and his retirement. He knows that I would never do that to him because it would only hurt my son's future.

You are right when you say that she's desperate. I've heard through the grapevine that she's never had a relationship before and she's not going to give up on this one. She pushed for the divorce last year and he in turn pushed me into it. I never wanted it. But, I finally accepted it and started moving on. That's what woke him up. I got a life...one without him. It drove him crazy.

He begged and promised me the world to let him back in and I gave in. The only problem was...I found out not long after that time that he had never really broke it off with her. He did, but she begged him to contiune the relationship.

He is a reservist...she's active duty. So, there is really no chain of command that is watching him. However, she was told to stay away from him by her command and hasn't. By the way, she's a Lt.Colonel. So, basically she is in the top of her command and they are over looking it.

My life feels like such a soap opera...I'm ready for it not to be on the top of the ratings so it can be discontinued!