Val, Might you reconsider answering the phone? I might. I think we need to prepare for the worst (change the locks) and hope for the best. I think you can still hope that H will not spew. You know him, I don't. Just wondering if you should reconsider this. You see, H loves you. You know he does. He said it. You did not do it, but your reaction (changing locks, not answering the phone) says otherwise. You need to feel safe so the lock thing is great, but maybe, maybe H will want a rational explaination. If you answer the phone, that might speak volumes. I dunno. I just wanted to suggest you not act guilty. You aren't. You have nothing to hide, and dignity and grace becomes you. I have learned a valuable lesson lately, If you assume, assume the best. Holly
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
