In the books I have read it says not to contact OP because it makes you look like the villian and they are the martyr. It was compared to Romeo and Juliet. The world against us. It doesn't make sense, but it sure seems to be true. Honestly, it's not in my nature to confront someone like that. I'm very nonconfrontational. The OW is my situation is my H's secretary. I own half of the business even though I don't work there. One of my friends told me you need to to fire that b*%ch, I knew my H would take her side. So I just took the high road. Not everyone in the commmunity knows about the affair, but believe me the ones that know are not saying kind things about OW.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
Whether it was right or not I still feel good calling OW and telling her that my H does not want to move out b/c I am sure he is telling me one thing and another lie to her!!!
UGH! H is away on business on the islands I hope not having too much good time where he can reflect on all I have said these past few days and I am sure OW called him already to tell him about my calling. I can almost hear her- Did you say you will not move out? WAH! Boo! HOO!
