You have no idea how many women who see guys in VS think it's sooo sweet that you are there. Women don't assume you are ogling the lingerie.
Heck, I've been known to walk up to a confused guy and ask if he needs some assistance picking something out for his wife/girlfriend (not flirting, just trying to help them out). Sometimes you guys can look so overwhelemed and uncomfortable in there LOL.
I too would think it was womderful that some guy was in there buying something for the special lady in their life - that is totally a PLUS when it comes to the ladies
Keep it up guys (pun intended )
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
How about a Gift certificate to the store and have her choose something sexy?
No, she's funny that way. She'd just go buy some panties or a new padded bra or something practical. I hope to gently rub the wildness in her. Heywyre,
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Do your women know how lucky they are to have men that will buy them lingerie?
I'll be lucky if she even keeps it let alone wear it. And one thing I can say without doubt, she'd look as good if not better in it than she did 15 years ago. I just hate wasted talent.
Just Me,
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Do you know how embarrassing it is for a guy to walk into Victoria's secret alone?
Oh ya that's why I'm ordering online. The only problem is where to deliver to, home, or office.
Thanks Y'all
COG
My Story http://www.divorcebusting.com/forum...&Number=660444&page=2#Post660444
What the heck - go out on a limb and deliver it to the office. Can you imagine the response she would get from some of the other women in the office (if there are any there) - it might actually help your cause. They would be all over that for sure
Go ahead COG - be daring !!!!
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
I hope the Baby Doll works for you. I would love it if my H bought me something from VC. Even underwear would do it for me.
I am also wondering if your W might be feeling anything like me. I used to not be very interested in ML because I got tired of all sexual activity (touching, etc.) was only when ML. It felt like just sex and not ML. I still need to get that through my H's head. Sex is also rather boring for me. We kiss, he plays with my boobs, then goes for the O. He thinks the O is all that is important. He doesn't understand that how you get there is more important. I would love it if he made me beg for it sometimes.
My H is very romantically challenged. And the only romantic dates we have every had are ones I have set up. Tonight, he is finally going to do something. I don't know what it is, but because it is a suprise, that in itself is enough romance for me because he has never surprised me before. He always asks me where I would like to go or if such and such would be okay with me. Just knowing that he is going to surprise me turns me on. Have your ever surprised your W this way?
COG--i think you have great taste...classy, elegant, erotic. wow. its not like some of the things they show (not VS specifically) that are pole-dance styles. she should feel special. and to reiterate what cj says, and like what i said earlier, do you/can you do the gentle yet teasing little touches throughout the day; intimate yet undemanding gestures that show you see her as a desireable woman? you are a lucky man, here you are getting a crash course about what woman like from women, who should know best. surely something will fit your W's desires. have you ever asked her what makes her feel special? if she's denied that part of herself for any length of time, it may take a while for her to think about it, but it might be a nice thing for her to delve into. we're pulling for you!! jacqm
That is so pretty, COG - sexy and elegant, which should work for both of you. So much nicer than that sleazy stuff the Bratz dolls wear.
I can't remember if I ever told you about Laura Corn's books: 101 nights of great sex and 101 nights of great romance. They are good, but I only found out about them when my M was already breaking down, so didn't really use them. The way they work is that you and your W each pick out a page, but you don't know what the "suggestion" will be, as they are folded. You each read what you chose, but don't show it to the other person. Then, sometime during the week, either on a day you've agreed upon or a surprise time, you do whatever it is.
The romance one could be a nice, non-threatening way to bring some new things into your M.
~ Nicola
Life isn't about finding yourself; it's about creating yourself My thread: Trusting God's Plan
i bought the 101 nights for H for his birthday one year...he never did read any, but I sure did! i learned how to slit the top and open them without really tearing them all the way. H did read one once, and was so turned off by it that he never did another. BUT, he thoroughly enjoyed the one i did on him! i don't know if he realized it was one from the book... jacqm
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