There are three things on that list that can be medically corrected with hormone therapy....that DO ligitimately affect women during different events in our lives (we've gone over this MANY times...Menopause, Hypocative thyroid, hormones screwed up by the birth of 3 children.)
The relationship issues, YOU have a part in correcting and addressing.
Body image, that one is up to her...but you'd be amazed at how addressing 1,2,3,5,6 & 7) would affect her ability to change that.
Neglect as a child and possible sexual abuse as a child....that she needs IC for to help her move past. Once she became a mother some of the things she experienced when she was a child, fears of things happening to her own kids by other people, could have resurfaced...to make her hyper-vigilant towards them, and draw her attention from you.
Honestly CeMar...ALL of these things are legitimate reasons for a woman to become LD.
YOU are responsible for dealing with #1 IN MC, and bringing up the other issues to be dealt with as concerns of yours in the marriage. Be VERY tactful though about the Body Image/Overweight one.
