questions to all infidelity veterans?????//

[Yoyowife]

In the books I have read it says not to contact OP because it makes you look like the villian and they are the martyr. It was compared to Romeo and Juliet. The world against us. It doesn't make sense, but it sure seems to be true. Honestly, it's not in my nature to confront someone like that. I'm very nonconfrontational. The OW is my situation is my H's secretary. I own half of the business even though I don't work there. One of my friends told me you need to to fire that b*%ch,
I knew my H would take her side. So I just took the high road. Not everyone in the commmunity knows about the affair, but believe me the ones that know are not saying kind things about OW.