I may have really messed up.

I was verifying account balances today. We have several joint checking accounts. However, she's primary on one and I'm primary on the others. I called each of our banks and ask what the balance was.

Shortly after I called, the W called me and asked my why I was calling to find out her balance. Someone from the bank called her and told her I had called.

Legally, since my name is on the account I should be able to find out the balance, but it pissed her off.

I told her I was just making a list of balances. I think she's still mad about it.