I did think of something that might have made him feel better. I sent him another e-mail telling him that something really easy he could do is--anything at all, as long as he doesn't tell me. When we go out, he always asks me what I want to do--even if he already has something in mind that he really wants to do. He can't even give a surprise gift. He blows it by asking too many questions to find out if the person will like it. I told him that he makes big decisions every day at work. He can make this decision without my approval. I promised that there was no way I would get mad. Having a secret date would be romance for me no matter what we wind up doing.
We bought FLOR tiles from Lowe's. The ones we ordered were $8.05/tile and $9.40/tile. I think there are others that were $6 and there were some that were more than $9.40. Lowe's sells different ones than what is at http://www.flor.com. You can see what Lowe's has in FLOR tiles at http://www.lowes/flor.com. Lowes.com doesn't give any prices, but flor.com does.
Is there any other time you and H can go for a walk together?
That is funny that your thread locked up after I asked about it. I did it on purpose. I have magic powers over bulletin boards.