Mary,

How about a Happy Anniversary from a cyber friend?

I agree w/you, our thoughts/feelings take second to our children. They are the innocent ones who need our help the most.

BTW, no offense taken on my thread.

My MIL gives me h##l every so often & I need to be swatted to keep my focus on track and not become a doormat.

Start a new tradition & let this day/date be about the kids. Celebrate it, because if it had not happened, the children would not be here.

Hugs!


MariS

"Going for the Gold & not the Booby prize"

Become the change you want to see.....

Me - 37
WAH - 35
child - 2yrs
Separated - August '06
Married - 10yrs, Together 18
Not feeling WAH's internal struggle - Feb '08