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Thanks again for the reply. I guess I need to just focus more on myself. It is hard to work on the R in a positive way when you know the W is not being honest with you. I say this, but I have been very positive and friendly around her. I do wear nice clothes and know that she is attracted to me, but the desire is not the same after being married for such a long period of time. One big problem we have is that we rarely get to go out togther since we have no one to watch the kids. As for the OM I have no idea when he will be back, but I am sure he will be he has lots of money. I am just confused with her right now. She says she wants to make the R work, which is great since we went through a few months where she wanted to end the R altogther and did not want to work on it. She admits to having walls put up and it will take time for things to progress. So everything with the R is looking positive except for the fact that she still contacts OM frequently and is secretive about it. I will probally be in the dark now since she seems to be likely to cover her tracks now that I confronted her. I will try to keep my cool and not do anything to hurt my ultimate goal of having a great marriage and family.