Unless, of course, you're going out with the guys, (dressed and smelling like an aboslute hunk!) and having an excellent time yourself...
But seriously, if the wife moves out where does the child go? Will there be a custody battle? These things need to be considered before separating. If I were a man in this position I'd pull in the purse strings as tight as possible before losing my child. That would be the first step....
By the way, this is also helpful if a relationship does eventually go into divorce. A good amount of time bringing a wife's "standard of living" down a few notches will help reduce alimony payments in the future... depending on your state, of course...
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
