Keep in mind Sol that you're not alone here. Before you make any decisions at all, make sure you give it lots of time and think about your daughter. Sadly, the people who get hurt the most and have the most difficult and longest recovery time are the kids. And they are on the sidelines....
But I don't blame your anger, I fully understand it, and I know how you feel because I've been there. You may be better off trying to keep your distance from your wife, maybe spend as little time as possible with her, is there family members you may be able to stay with if things get too uncomfortable?
If it were me I'd tell her, unemotionally, that I know everything and I'd like some space and time alone to think things over.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
