Light at the End?

[~Sol]

W's doctor said it was trichomona, and that I probably have it, but its treatable if I take the same pills she's taking. Still, I wonder if she got it from OM???

Having Om involved with my W's sister is messed up, and yes, it screws with my W's head. I wonder if she will let her sister know they had sex? This is too much drama that my W created (W introduced those 2 after all), and it never ceases to amaze me. I don't deserve any of this BS behavior from her, I just want a NORMAL relationship with ONE WOMAN that is committed to a relationship, nothing more - nothing less.

[Yoyowife]

Okay, so this man is not only tearing up your family, he is also going to ruin her relationship with her sister. What a predator, he has no morals!

I'm so sorry Sol. I would like to shake your wife and tell her to wake up and look at the wonderful man and life she is throwing away!

[Yoyowife]

I too want my H to love only me. That's the way God intended it to be. Will they ever come out of this haze?

[lovelyolive]

Well.. it just goes to show you how much this guy thinks/thought of your wife. It does seem that these OP have lives that revolve around drama. Self-induced no doubt..

[~Sol]

It's going to be really hard to go home today and look at my wife. I don't know how I am going to react. I might break down right then, or not. Won't know till I get there.

I am trying really hard not to lose it. I know it's nothing new, just a confirmation about what I suspected all along. This is getting harder and harder.

[*KS*Chick*]

http://www.cdc.gov/std/Trichomonas/STDFact-Trichomoniasis.htm

BTW Sol - maybe THIS was why she didn't want to be intimate? And from the link, you can see the OM was obviously lying about using protection so why would you believe him about anything else........

Dude - I don't know how much you'll put up with and it's not for me to say but we're here for you.

[~Sol]

UA - I am at my limit here.

[*KS*Chick*]

I understand Sol.

[mcojh]

Sol-
On March 15th, so was I. You need to take the time to make your decision out of rational thinking, not anger and emotion. Don't react until you are sure.

[runningoutoftime]

Keep in mind Sol that you're not alone here. Before you make any decisions at all, make sure you give it lots of time and think about your daughter. Sadly, the people who get hurt the most and have the most difficult and longest recovery time are the kids. And they are on the sidelines....

But I don't blame your anger, I fully understand it, and I know how you feel because I've been there. You may be better off trying to keep your distance from your wife, maybe spend as little time as possible with her, is there family members you may be able to stay with if things get too uncomfortable?

If it were me I'd tell her, unemotionally, that I know everything and I'd like some space and time alone to think things over.