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I don't see the world in various shades of gray (thus why women baffle me). To me if things are still gray, you just have not divided the problem fine enough to get to black and white.


Ah, but CeMar...you cannot deal with the human factor in black and white. If you feel that we women are in that shade of grey region, then YOU need to learn to see shades of grey in order to relate. Otherwise you are expecting your W to go to one extreme or the other...black/white. She's not likely to do that...especially if she doesn't see things as black/white.

With people there are too many variables, too many opinions, too many true shades of grey. Or if you will...and we take this to the artistic spectrum of color....you have MANY shades of color between.....white and black...no longer shades of grey but a whole rainbow. Women, people, personalities fit into those different shades of colors, with those colors representing different aspects about them. Life is NOT black and white. Emotions are NOT black and white. Love is NOT black and white, because there are too many factors that go into all of those things. Life is not data crunched out in black and white.

Plain and simple you are analyzing everything to death and it's paralyzing you...so you stay frozen in the same spot in your marriage.

And yeah, you still have not given Cobra a straight answer to his question.


Well behaved women rarely ever make history!