I believe it is when you get about a hundred posts, it will stop allowing any more post on that particular thread, so you can just start a new one with the same title or a different one.
Maybe your H will take the lead and really think about something romantic to do, but he probably has gotten his feelings hurt, because in his eyes, maybe dinner and a movie with just the two of you is romantic. I have gotten lunch out with my H, and wish we could have dinner out, but he won't take the suggestion, so I have to be content with lunch for now. I asked my H a little while ago, when he was talking about getting back on his exercise routine, if we could go walking in the evening, and said I would love a walking partner, but he said it was too late at night for walking when he gets home. I guess I will have to do that alone then. I am hoping when we get the den and garage fixed up, we can do up an exercise area, and put in a treadmill for me, and we already have weight machines, and bicycles. It's funny that you said you and your H had a disagreement over the carpet tiles to use down there, because my H and I are talking about what to put down when we remove the carpeting, and we so far like the idea of carpet tiles. Are they terribly expensive?
Maybe if you tell your H that you didn't mean that you didn't like the idea of dinner and a movie, and think it would be fun, he would maybe not be sulky? That you were hoping for it to be with something else added to make it really special because you think he is so special that you wanted the night to be memorable with him. And let him pick the movie, even if it's a guy flick, with lots of blood, gore, car chases, and all that testerone filled stuff, which I actually really like. It makes my heart race to see a good martial arts fight!! Plus it gives you a topic to talk about for awhile.
I think if he is happy with a belly full of good food, a good action movie, and you sitting next to him, that he would turn and smile at you, because you really enjoyed what he chose for you two to do, it will make it romantic right there.
Good Luck, and I hope he isn't upset with you, but just wants to think about it like he said.
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P.S. Now that's funny, because just now when I went to check my thread, IT is locked up !! Darn!! I think you jinxed me!! NOT REALLY!!