I'm sorry to hear of your health issues and the added stress is not heping you at all.
OW can stay around for awhile as my H has been carrying on with OW for almost three years but they have been living together for almost one year now.
Your H went on a spending spree, huh? Could it be that OW is someone who understands him with regard to when he was in the military because she was there? I know these A's hardly ever last but it is an addiction and band-aid for other problems.
So he still lives at home, right?
Another great source of comfort for us has been the Charlyne newsletters about marriages and restoration of marriages.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
