As well as treating myself to the erotic dancing classes I have also been wearing very expensive lingerie since my H left. It makes such a difference to how I feel about myself. Now I feel I'm 'worth' expensive lingerie irrespective of the fact that no-one besides me will see it. Maybe you could give her a gift voucher to go choose her own lingerie if you think you buying her some would freak her out.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15
Do your women know how lucky they are to have men that will buy them lingerie? What I would do for that (sorry guys, can't tell ya - lol)
I don't even buy myself any (I have a whole drawer full of it from before we were married but I don't dare wear it because H would be disgusted - but that's a whole other issue with him)
Your wife is one lucky woman COG - good on ya!!
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
Do you know how embarrassing it is for a guy to walk into Victoria's secret alone? I feel like the women think I'm some sort of perv that either wears the lingerie (some of which could be fun I suppose) or am just there to ogle at the stuff.
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Do you know how embarrassing it is for a guy to walk into Victoria's secret alone? I feel like the women think I'm some sort of perv that either wears the lingerie (some of which could be fun I suppose) or am just there to ogle at the stuff.
yup.
I used to get stuff there...but don't anymore. They've changed their stock so that all they have is this tiny stringy-stuff that W would never wear, even if they made it in here size...which they don't. I like the previously linked outfit...could work. but I just don't see that stuff in their store anymore. maybe I should stick to the catalog... no "perv" vibes that way, too.
