12_51 You're list is good, but please do not overwhelm yourself. You might end up working so hard to be the old you that you won't be in the moment. That's what used to make us our old, confident, fun selves; living in the moment, being real, and taking it as it comes! Just focus on being YOU! I'm real glad you mentioned the LD issue. When I see my doc., I am going to talk to him about my LD. Maybe my testosterone levels are responsible for what has been going on. I never would have thought of it, except for your posts! And don't forget to be that rock! My hopes and prayers are with you.