Light at the End?

[~Sol]

My W has had multiple vaginal infections and I have no disease that I am aware of. She always gets treated, and this time a red flag went up when she told me it was another infection - and we had not had sex in a long time. So I suspected, and I plainly asked the guy how many times they did it (as if I knew), and he came back with 10. The guy is now involved with my W's sister, it's messed up I know, but I let him know that my W's recurring "infections" concerned me.

I am not touching my wife until I get checked out as well, to see if the infection is really coming from me. Having an EA was bad enough, feelings were and are still involved, and I can't reach her yet. But now that I know they had sex multiple times, I don't see my wife in the same light as before - it's worse. I can't sense any remorse from her, just anger when I bring up divorce. And I am just afraid she'll do this again - and I fear for my daughter having a bad example for a mom.