12_51 I think Cobra's right on! I see a lot of that in my W. She can put on a tough, take charge face; but in the past, when she HAD to be strong, she doesn't like it. I think my W is always looking for a "hero", and I know if I act wimpy, it will simply drive her farther off. I think your W and mine are VERY insecure inside. Maybe that's why when we lost confidence in ourselves, things went to hell in a handbasket!
