2in2 I hear ya on that one!

And you're right, we have no control over that. Only our selves.

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One other thing that I've thought of is initiating sex. She says that I never initiate sex. I could offer tonight.

But, I'm afraid it will be viewed as "too little, too late."

I probably just need the take it as it comes. If there's opportunity, go for it -- otherwise, don't push it.