Curious...why would the comments from here send you in a tailspin? Why would you give US that much power? Don't know which comments, or group of comments would do that. I knew there was stuff being said (and I probably said a great deal of it) that would bother you...but the stuff that I, and others said, was in complete honesty to you.
Is it possible you allow those comments on here, that brutally honest feedback, to send you into a tailspin....because you are scared of dealing with some of the issues? Or possibly scared of the fallout?
