Thanks for the reply. Last night I know she was texting him a lot, but she came home extremely friendly towards me and wanting to get frisky. She hasn't acted like this for some time. To make it short Later on in the night I told her I thought she was being secretive and wanted to know about the OM. She told me a lot about him and told me that she did not think of him as anymore than a friend. I am very positive that it is not an PA. She said the OM has good stories and is fun she also mentioned that he pays for sex and probally has STDs. I told her that he is a guy and I am sure he likes her or would like to do more with her and she admitted that is probally true, but she would never.
After I confronted her she sleep with her phone by her in bed obviosly she didn't want me to look at her text messages. She also changed her password on her phone account this morning. This behavior tells me once again that she is hiding something. The signals I am getting are really mixed and I am really confused. I want to belive her and better our R, but I am having a hard time trusting her when she obviously doesn't want me to know how much they are talking. One more thing none of the messages I have seen between them have led me to believe there is something more than a friendship. In short I believe her when she talks to me, but the phone behaviour still gives me many doubts.
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