Husband back from an affair-so confused

[RedHeadWife]

Happens to the best of us, sweetie! Now you need to quit beating yourself up and forgive yourself for your "transgressions" in the M and get on w/ life and making your M wonderful.

I was the same way w/ my H -- couldn't get enough, but don't be surprised when that levels off a little. Sometimes you are going to have to just do it even if you're tired, etc., etc. and you'll be glad you did. Once the "honeymoon" wears off, you still need to make sure you keep up the effort of working on yourself and the M.

Also, don't get all freaked out if he doesn't initiate every day or sometimes just holds you and then rolls over & goes to sleep. If he's getting it all the time, he's not going to be needing to beg for it anymore. This all has happened to me in the last few months, so I'm speaking from experience.

Just enjoy! The A is going to take time to get over, for both of you. Read my "expert NOP" thread here on SSM. It's about A's and getting over it, etc. You'll start getting the trust back, but don't be surprised if "normal things" make you wonder what he's doing or what he's thinking, etc.