Well it's back to the cave time for my H. He told me last night that he had been doing lots of thinking. I asked about what and he said everything. He said just give me space. I said I'm not trying to bug you. He said I don't mind if you call. He said I don't want to offend you by telling you that I need space and time to think. I told him I wasn't offended.

I have seen him just about everyday this week because we have been trying to get the pool up and running and D had some school projects that required his help. I wasn't trying to be pushy, but I did extend invitations.

We have been separated 6 months, what about that space? He has never filed any kind of papers. Any help here would be appreciated. Does this mean I need to go totally dark and not fill him on anything that is going on with the family? The girls are old enough to contact him if they need him. I just before had let him know things they didn't tell him and my concerns. My patience is waning.




Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.
-- Bernice Johnson Reagon