You had written this a while back, and I wanted to address it before I forgot about it.
Quote: ------------------------------------------------------ I've gone back and read over NOPkins old posts, and even that guy, who seems like now he could take a shotgun blast to the face and it wouldn't faze him, was pouring out anguish all over the board. Even started one post with something like "don't read this if you want to be happy" or something like that. ------------------------------------------------------
When I came here, I had great skills and confidence with women. That goes way back.
The problem was that my relational skills with women existed mainly in two facets. I knew how to play them, and I knew how to be their friend. I had little to zip of an idea how to actually have a productive relationship with one. It was just not in my experience. I knew enough of marriage to manage to stay married, but just barely.
So, the guy hasn't changed much, but my skill set has improved dramatically
What you need is a dose of my intrepidity mixed in with your sensitivity. I bet that would send your wife looking for something solid to hang on to
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
