Hon, it could be as simple as he can't keep his hands off you now...because you are finally open to allowing him to do that.
He's been wanting that connection with you all along. He's remorseful for stepping out of the marriage. YOU have finally opened your eyes to the portion of the pain your were responsible for in your own marriage (not saying you were responsible for his affair, that was 100% his choice)...and NOW you two CAN have that intimate connection.
I'm not surprised at all that he's not able to keep his hands off you...that's what he wanted all along hon. To be able to have that intimate physical contact with you, and have you be receptive to it and want it as well.
It's perfectly natural after an affair for you to think "he's doing this with me but is he thinking about her." My guess is....he's not, he's finally getting what he wanted WITH the woman he wanted it with....YOU.
