Let me start by saying I wish I had found this book a few years ago! This book is exactly my life story. After my children were born I focused all my energy on them and totally neglected my husband. He made repeated attempts and pleads to increase our intimacy, but I would have nothing to do with it. The resentment game went on for 5 years, until my husband decided to find sex and admiration somewhere else! We are 2 months into dealing with his one month affair and I am totally confused. He is back, very remorseful, seeking therapy and committed and unbelievably our sex life has been better than ever? I never thought I would have sex with him again and yet I want him more than ever (probably because I now realize other women do to) . The book makes me think this is his way of trying to get close to me and connect again, but I can't help wondering if he is just using me and thinking of the other woman? I don't want to mess this up again, but really need to understand why he can't keep his hands off me now?????? Thanks for any advise!
